For Beginners

 

 Making that first call to the lady who catches your eye can be difficult and stressful. How many times did you start to dial before you stopped and said "I will do it later?" or how many times did you get as far as hearing her voice then hang up? This is actually pretty common for first timers on both sides. When I first started I let many calls go because I didn't know what to say or do. You may stammer, blush and get tongue tied, even though you are on the phone and can't see each other. The first few I was so tongue tied I couldn't form a coherent thought, and the funny thing is, to this day I still stammer and get tongue tied a lot. Just because we play and enjoy what we do, doesn't mean talking it is easy. With some people it gets easier with time and for others that shyness will always remain.

 

 For many what stumps you are what questions to ask. Some will txt or call and be straight to the point and ask "Rates, location, services?". Others will start a conversation by going "Hi, how are you today?" The first way is so-so in my opinion, even though I giggle when I see it put like that, in a way it shows how the adventure may go. The latter way is more friendly and puts both of us at ease a bit more and is how I like to start. Never, ever, ever start with "Wanna f**k" or "Wanna suck my c**k", this will either get you a nasty response or no response at all.

 

 The next question can be "May I ask what your donations are?" She will then tell you what those are. If you are only wanting a BnG (blow and Go), or say a half hour, then specifically ask for those donation amounts. If the amount is more than you can afford then you have two options. One is to say "I am sorry but I am unable to visit this week" or you can go with a less expensive option. Instead of booking an hour maybe you could book a half hour instead.

 

 "Where are you located?" can come next. Sometimes you will only get a general location like a street name or intersection. Usually specific addresses aren't given until adventure is booked.

 

 Next comes "May I ask what you provide and what your restrictions are?" You may get the restrictions first as they are usually easier to answer first. Please don't get frustrated or turned off if you get a vague response for what she offers as sometimes this will vary with each person. If you are looking for something specific then ask about those.

 

 I don't know where this next question should fall, I guess it depends on how horny you are and how quick you need that appointment. "I was wondering what your availability is?" She may not be able to see you right away and sometimes she may not be able to see you that day. If that is the case then please don't get upset, instead ask about an appointment for the next day. Prebooking is awesome as you will be able to pick the time you would like.

 

 By now you should have all your questions answered so the next step would be booking the appointment, getting the location and discussing little things that would make your adventure as pleasurable as possible.

 

 Having a conversation whether it be a long one or short can be helpful. It helps the two of you to become more comfy with each other and it helps the two of us to get an idea of what we are like. Our conversations may be funny at times or strict. Sometimes we talk like long lost friends or they can be very business like. Just remember we follow your lead.

 

 Don't be discouraged if all of a sudden you don't get a response if you are txting or emailing it usually means that someone has shown up or a phone call has come through and we don't know how, don't have time or are not comfy with saying that our appointment showed up. If you are talking to her and she says "gotta go" and hangs up it is probably because of the same reason. Call or txt again a while later. The same goes with not getting a response right away, sometimes we can't answer.

 

 Now, close your eyes, take a deep breath and say "Hi, how are you today?" and enjoy the start of your adventure.

 

 Hugs n Kisses

Lizzy